A Prayer About Asking for Forgiveness
Have mercy on me, O God, according to your unfailing love; according to your great compassion blot out my transgressions. Wash away all my iniquity and cleanse me from my sin. Psalm 51:1-2
Heavenly Father, few things are as attractive or satisfying as genuine humility. It’s like a five course meal in a 5 star bistro. When someone offers a contrite heart, takes responsibility for their failure, acknowledges the impact of their choice, asks to be forgiven and seeks to make restitution-there’s no restaurant on the face of the earth that can offer up more exquisite cuisine.
Yet Lord, when it comes to asking for forgiveness, too often I’m like short order cook in a fast food drive through. I hear myself saying things like, “I’m sorry, but you took what I said all wrong.” “I’m sorry, but if you weren’t so sensitive it wouldn’t be that big of a deal.” “I’m sorry, but if you understood what my last couple of weeks were like, you’d cut me some slack.” “I’m sorry, but you know what kind of home I grew up in. I didn’t get the ‘relationship chip’.” “I’m sorry, but that’s just YOUR reality.”
Gracious Father, as I pour through your Word I don’t see a single place where the phrase, “I’m sorry, but” is celebrated as the vocabulary of genuine humility and loving well. Have mercy on ME, indeed. May your unfailing love and great compassion free me from all “I’m sorry, buts.” Instead, I want to offer many more, “Will you forgive me’s?” “I can see I really hurt you. What do you need from me?” “Tell me more about how my words and actions made you feel.” “I’m genuinely sorry and I offer no qualifiers, just an apology.”
I know that in Jesus, all of my sins have already been forgiven-past, present and future-sins of thought, word and deed. May such good make it increasingly easier for me to humble myself and ask forgiveness of others, and increasingly difficult for me to remain oblivious to how I impact others. So very Amen, I pray, in Jesus’ name.